{"author":{"username":"adrianandreev","displayName":"ΛDRIΛИ","fid":267836},"timestamp":"2025-09-21T23:22:36.000Z","text":"Dear son, daughter, or friend,\nI share this as a truth and an experience of my life so far.\nI used to date a lady that engaged in putting down waiters, psyops / emotional / mental put downs. Communication is a/b, \nwhen the balance is off kilter, \nyou need to go hither to a place of freedom and peace. \nEven if you both fit the marriage definitions in a relationship. \nThe mental, emotional and spiritual toll is not worth it. \nA soulmate (I imagine), would take the time to understand, reflect and encourage communication without a need for hurt. Even if the steak or potatoes are not as what we asked for, it was never the waiter’s fault. \nThe issue was a communication breakdown or possibly even the cook being new.\nBeing feisty or a heretic for something you believe in, is fine and encouraged. \nHowever, when it bleeds into other things that impact relationships or other people close/unaware of your pain/battles, a change is necessary\nhttps://open.spotify.com/track/5Fd9Xyo34qjz30Lh3G6Phr?si=OO9nMAAhRD2Eyfz0I1AdSQ","links":[{"url":"https://open.spotify.com/track/5Fd9Xyo34qjz30Lh3G6Phr?si=OO9nMAAhRD2Eyfz0I1AdSQ","title":"For Them (Intro)"}],"farcaster":"https://farcaster.xyz/adrianandreev/0x4928218e6f0d5d56ba7e531b8876f89afc95c20d","firefly":"https://firefly.social/post/farcaster/0x4928218e6f0d5d56ba7e531b8876f89afc95c20d"}